Have you ever fought about sex with your partner, felt guilty about your lack of interest in sex, or wondered why you don’t enjoy it and feel like sex is a chore and tolerate it just to keep your relationship and do you ever feel tormented and feel like less of a woman because of it? If so I am glad you stumbled upon my blog, because not only will my story shock you, you may be surprised to learn I was once like this. Let me tell you my story:
My name is Linda Malta, I appeared to have the perfect life. When I graduated from college, I married the man of my dreams—thoughtful, romantic, with a great sense of humor and athletic. He would often buy me flowers “just because” and always has a kind word.
We bought a beautiful home. We both had rewarding, well paying jobs and were active in our church and community. After four years of marriage, we decided to have a baby.
You'd think my life was perfect but I felt miserable inside. My pain was a very private pain. My deep emotional torment was hidden behind my bedroom doors. I felt inadequate as a woman. I felt frustrated and cheated by sex. Not by my husband but by my own body and my sexuality.
You see for as long as I could remember, I had always had great difficulty reaching orgasm. It would take 40 minutes or more of intense stimulation. And even then it didn’t always happen. Soon my loving and passionate husband began to get tired of the work it took to give me an orgasm. His sighs of frustration and looks of boredom would destroy any desire I had.
After about the first year of my marriage I stopped asking my husband to pleasure me to orgasm. My difficulty with achieving orgasm not only created tension in my marriage it also made me feel insecure. Things got so bad, that when my husband would ask me if I wanted to have an orgasm, I was so ashamed by the difficulty and frustration I felt I would bitterly answer “No!”
The Inevitable
Started To Happen.
Soon I was avoiding any kind of foreplay as I found sex was more easily ‘endured’ the less physically aroused and involved I became. Not being able to orgasm after getting worked up and excited was worse than just laying their uninvolved and feeling nothing.
After several years of sex like this without having orgasms with my husband and months since I had one by myself. I decided it was just too much trouble and told myself I really didn’t have the desire or the interest in sex. For me sex had become mechanical, a chore to keep my husband happy and a necessary activity now that we had decided to get pregnant.
Our infrequent sexually unions were demeaning to both of us, my passionate playful husband was reduced to an insemination source so I could get pregnant.
Our baby making efforts felt like more like required intrusions, like visits to my gynecologist. I felt ashamed at my lack of sexual energy and insecure because of my lack of sexual power. I felt defective and inadequate as a woman and a wife. This isn’t how it is supposed to be I thought. Angry and bitter at my body for betraying me and depriving me of the sexual joy I felt I deserved. Joys that I felt should happen naturally without so much work and frustration.
I Was Inspired to Find a Solution.
Then one day at church, I heard the pastor say something that touched the center of my being. It went something like “Man is that he might have joy.” Immediately the thought “this includes sexual joy between man and wife ” came to me.
Then the question “Are you willing to open your heart and mind to sexual joy?” filled my mind. I heard myself answer “Yes!” out loud, and I thought I heard the words “Seek and you shall find, knock and it shall be opened unto you.”
This experience opened my mind and I began searching for answers. Then while searching the internet I came across information about the ezCOME and the ezOrgasm Diet that came with it.
The information sounded like what I was looking for—a completely natural way to activate my innate sexuality.
I Knew Pills Weren't the Answer
I hade seen the ads for herbal remedies, topical creams and so forth saying how they would restore a woman’s libido and sex drive but somehow I knew intuitively they were not the answer to my problem.
I was intrigued by the mention that the ezOrgasm Diet may help with depression. I forget to mention I had been taking antidepressants, and I was anxious to get off of them, especially with wanting to get pregnant.
The information about the ezOrgasm Diet also mentioned the use of fish oil and my OB/GYN had recommended I take fish oil to help with fetal brain development once I was pregnant. So I knew taking fish oil was a good thing.
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Although skeptical, I figured it was worth a try. And since the diet uses nutrition and supplements I figured it couldn’t hurt. What really intrigued me was the ezCOME.
I knew how important having strong pelvic muscles is for a woman's orgasm and I had done thousands of “kegels” with no noticeable effect.
I had even looked at getting the Kegelmaster2000. But a friend had told me it pinched her, was difficult to use and she ended up not using it. The thing even looked scary.
The ezCOME isn’t like that at all. It’s soft and curvy like a woman and very comfortable. It even has a little tail that sticks out and lets me know when I am doing the exercises right. It is very easy to use and keep clean. |
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I Got Off Anti-Depressants.
The diet recommendations were in line with good nutrition and fairly easy to follow and uses normal food I get from my local grocer. One thing I really like about the diet is the daily chocolate requirement. Soon after changing my diet and taking the recommended supplements I was able to get off the antidepressants with my doctor’s approval.
Following the diet not only allowed me to get off the antidepressants, it had a tremendous impact on my libido. My libido just didn’t improve, it skyrocketed! I no longer felt like just a baby receptacle during sex, I was feeling sexy and enthusiastic about sex; I was thrilled, as was my husband.
Then after just a few weeks of using the ezCOME and the diet not only did my libido come back to life so did my orgasm. And in a big way, I never thought sex could be this good. |
Was It Really Working or Was It Something Else?
I continued following the diet and using the ezCOME throughout my pregnancy. My OB/GYN told me it was okay to keep using the ezCOME and doing the exercises because strong pelvic muscles would make delivery and recovery easier. Even while pregnant I enjoyed an ever increasing libido. I wasn’t 100 percent sure what was giving me the sexual boost as my OB said it was not unusual for women to experience a libido boost during pregnancy because of hormone changes.
After giving birth to my daughter I experienced the typical libido crash that most nursing mothers have. By now following the diet was a habit and everything about it was inline with what a nursing mother needs. I did cheat a bit and eat more carbs during my pregnancy and while nursing. I also started using the ezCOME again as soon as I was able to after giving birth and my recovery was very quick.
Soon after weaning the baby my libido came roaring back to life and I was eager to find out if the changes were from being pregnant or from the diet and pelvic muscle exercises.
My Unexpected Discovery.
I began faithfully using the ezCOME everyday according to the directions. Then something wonderful happened.
During a long boring and lonely road trip I had driven out of range of any radio stations and I hadn’t brought any music to listen to, so I was left to my own thoughts and imagination. To pass the time I found myself day dreaming and fantasizing about my husband and began flexing my pelvic muscles. I didn't think to bring the ezCOME with me to use during the long drive.
Then to my shock and amazement I had an orgasm. It was a different kind of sensation. This orgasm didn’t come from my clitoris. It felt deeper inside and further up. I couldn’t wait to get home and share the experience with my husband. However, I wasn’t able to repeat the vaginal orgasm during sex at that time.
I continue to use the ezCOME and the diet. I am certain their use restored my enjoyment of sex and boosted my libido so I now enjoy a full and satisfying sex life with my husband, including clitoral orgasms and vaginal orgasms during intercourse. Sex it better than I ever imagined.
Its kind of embarrassing to share this, not only do I orgasm during intercourse, sometimes it happens when I am giving my husband oral pleasure. He gets a real thrill from this. Another thing is I have wet orgasms now when he stimulates my G-spot and clitoris. Those are kind of embarrassing, but they make my husband feel like such a stud. And they feel really good too, just messy. And he doesn’t mind.
What’s so different about this product is it explains how a woman’s libido and sexual function can be activated and enhanced by simple changes in her diet and by correctly exercising her pelvic muscles. It showed me what I needed to do to turn on my natural levels of sexual desire and enjoyment. Even more important it let me know there was nothing wrong with ME or my body, and showed me how to give it what it needed to work like I thought it should. It is so simple, made sense and it works.
Here's why I recommend it.
I recommend the ezCOME and the ezOrgasm Diet that comes with it because after reading the information with an open mind and trying it out, within a matter of a few days the results were almost unbelievable. I wouldn’t believe it myself except it happened to me so I know it works. It did take me a while to change some of my eating habits that were damaging my libido, and as I did I found myself craving sex with my husband. I mean I get really horny sometimes. As you can imagine I was pretty astonished and so was he.
In my experience I feel this is more effective and superior than any of the other methods. Each person and relationship is different and this has worked extremely well for me and my husband.
The great thing is the diet shows you what to eat and what NOT to eat and what supplements to take and what things to avoid. What could be simpler? And you can get the supplements from anywhere you choose.
And the ezCOME is so easy to use and comfortable and with the built in indicator I know I am doing the exercises correctly and it takes just a few minutes.
My only criticism is the name, ezCOME. It sounds like some kind of sex toy and stands for: easy Clinical Orgasm Muscle Exerciser. Since it was developed by a trained sexologist to do exactly as its name implies, exercise the PC or orgasm muscle, I suppose the name makes sense. The same goes for the ezOrgasm Diet. They both do what their names say.
Anyway I hope you found this information useful whatever your personal situation. I only wish I had known about the ezCOME and the ezOrgasm Diet years ago. I think about the unnecessary anguish I went through and the intimacy I missed out on with my husband and the great sex we share now. All the tears and self loathing about my sexual inadequacy were unnecessary, instead I feel good about myself, my body and the level of sexual joy I have found. I I wish you all the joy you desire.
Sincerely,
Linda Malta
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